I suppose I am a typical bloke. I am quite hard on myself and I tend to beat myself up if I stray off the path.

My speed wobbles are getting smaller though, and less frequent.

And that’s how progress happens.

Consistently taking imperfect action, and even when you’re wading through treacle, taking a tiny step towards the goal. I’m having this conversation a lot recently with other men on my men’s coaching programme.

Over the years they’ve noticed a pattern of ‘binge exercise’ after months of sedentary desk work, long commutes in the car, and evenings spent on the sofa.

And we all know what happens next (I had this conversation with a 53yo exec yesterday).

If it isn’t a knee twinge, or a lower back spasm, as soon as work piles up and you’re not able to execute the perfect week of workout routines, planned healthy meals go out of the window, so you forget about it, returning to reliance on convenience foods, vending machines, and evening drinks to unwind.

You go from 0% for 6 months, to 100% for a week and back to 0% until the next wake up call in 3 months time.
You know, that awkward walk where you know your shirt’s too tight and you have to present to an audience. Or that family snap where you’re like ‘who the hell is that?’ before you realise it is you.

Sound familiar?

If you’re interested in working with me so you can be more consistent and reach your goals, I invite you to learn more and apply to work with me and learn more about men’s weight loss here.

About the Author Nico Valla

Your Success in Health, Fitness, and Life Starts Here—Personalised Support for Real People

I get it—life is hectic, and putting your health first isn’t always easy. As a busy business owner, teacher, and dad of three, I know how overwhelming it can be to find balance. But I also know that you deserve to feel confident, energised, and in control of your well-being.

Since 2008, I’ve helped people who’ve struggled their entire lives with their eating and movement habits find sustainable ways to make positive changes. My approach isn’t about perfection or quick fixes; it’s about meeting you where you are, understanding your unique challenges, and creating realistic strategies that fit your life.

Whether it’s losing weight, boosting self-confidence, or just feeling good when you walk into a room, I’m here to guide you with empathy, experience, and a no-judgement attitude. Together, we’ll work on building habits that support not just your body, but your mind, relationships, and overall success.

You’re not just another client; you’re someone with a unique story, and I’m excited to be part of your journey. Let’s make this the year you finally prioritise yourself—without sacrificing everything else.

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